
Release vs Pardon
Two very different words. Each has it's own meaning and at times one can question the difference as to how it pertains to any given situation. Perhaps it may be better interpreted by circumstances or events. Or, in other cases it pertains to ones inner self and emotional turmoil. If we were to analyze their differences maybe we can decipher which one pertains to the the particular issue or circumstance we face. In this article I choose to interpret these two meanings as the final outcome of an emotional struggle.
Re-lease: To set free from restraint and confinement. Relinquish relief from oppression, bottled up suppression’s of such emotional, physical and mental burdens.
Release: Relief from deliverance sorrow, suffering, or troubles. The act of intense liberating or freeing.
Pardon: To be freed from personal affliction, guilt, persecution and penalty. To allow unconditionally the acceptance of any offense, constrictions or convictions to pass without judgment, or punishment but to act through forgiveness.
There is a difference indeed, and many of us hold and repress many or our emotional needs by confusing these two words. We live our lives feeling that if we find superficial alternative measures to release our suppressed situations it will help us move on. We can now release the tension and it will act as a band-aid upon an old wound. But, somehow it isn't enough, and this wound never heals. So, many of us learn to live with this confinement as an excuse to justify what we interpret as permanent relief. Therefore we are never truly freed. We simply settle and lean to live an emotionally unfilled life.
If we look at this from a different perspective that is, by changing our attitude and mental approach to this chronic aching wound, and use the pardon approach instead, it presents a very different outcome. Although it might present itself as an act of personal injury or penalty we are reminded that in order to find release it can no longer be interpreted as guilt. That what must be done holds no restraints, harsh judgment upon ones conscience. It is forgiveness within oneself to choose pardon over release.
By pardoning ourselves of all self restraints we gain the ability to understand the differences between these two words. Release is a temporary fix. Pardon is knocking down all the walls and opening all the doors and windows. Your vision is clear without obstruction, you can walk through without hesitation, you can breath the fresh air and expose yourself to the light.
Once we've accepted this as our final and profound judgment it is at this precise moment that we set ourselves free...

